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![]() Patrick Pate, right, and James Pate wait in line outside the Multnomah County Office building in Portland, Ore. Monday, as they wait to register their domestic partnership. Photo by Associated Press.
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Couples exchange rings at Ore. domestic partnership registry
Monday, February 4, 2008 11:56 AM PST
By The Associated Press
PORTLAND, Ore. (AP) — Couples exchanged rings, toasted each other and broke into cheers Monday as other same-sex pairs emerged from the red brick Multnomah County Building waving certificates declaring them newly registered domestic partners.
It was the first day of registration in Oregon after U.S. District Judge Michael Mosman lifted a temporary injunction imposed pending resolution of an argument over petition signatures.
The ruling on Friday made Oregon the ninth state to approve spousal rights in some form for gay couples.
Couples who pay the $60 registration fee can now file joint state tax returns, inherit each other’s property and make medical choices on each other’s behalf, among other benefits married Oregonians have.
“Champagne, ya gotta do it,” said Tiffany Isaman, as she and her partner of four years, Clair Shannon, toasted each other and exchanged rings outside the county building on Monday.
“There aren’t words to describe how I feel. I’m floating,” Isaman added.
For Berdell and Casey Moffitt-Chaney, it was the fifth try during 25 years together.
The Moffitt-Chaneys said the first was a holy union ceremony, then a domestic partnership, a marriage in Portland that was later voided by the courts, a still-valid marriage in Canada and Monday’s domestic partnership.
The line of early applicants flowed out the door. Volunteers passed platters of chocolate cupcakes.
“My 8-month-old daughter is proud to have two legal mommies,” read a placard held aloft by one woman on a nearby corner.
In 2004, Multnomah County passed a law authorizing same-sex marriages and about 3,000 couples took advantage. The law later was ruled unconstitutional and the marriages voided. Voters passed a state constitutional ban on gay marriages that year.
Opponents of the domestic partnership law passed by the 2007 Legislature have argued, among other things, that it disregarded the will of Oregon voters who passed the ban on same-sex marriage.
An Arizona-based group which advocates for Christian legal issues had gone to federal court to argue that county elections clerks had improperly disqualified voter signatures collected during a drive to refer the domestic partnership law to the November 2008 ballot.
But Mosman rejected arguments by the Alliance Defense Fund that state elections officials should have made more of an effort to contact voters whose signatures were disqualified. The referendum drive fell 96 signatures short of the 55,179 needed to refer a law passed by the legislature to the ballot.
The Alliance Defense Fund has said it plans to appeal Mosman’s ruling.
On Monday, Wayland Bruns and Brad Townsend, who married three years ago in Vancouver, British Columbia, were in snappy coats and ties, standing out from the more casual majority.
Bruns said he foresaw a time when gay marriage might again be authorized in Oregon “but it will take more Democrats being elected.”
He was cautious about their new status, saying with many Republicans still opposed, “nothing is safe.”
Several couples said they hope for eventual federal recognition that will allow them other rights such as sharing Social Security benefits.
In Salem, Martha Aaron came bearing a red rose and a cup of coffee brought for her by partner Katie Howe.
“The more people take this legal step, the more friends, families and co-workers will know what is real in our lives, and how having legal protections is just what’s fair,” she said.
“It doesn’t take away from anyone else’s legal protections for us to have this,” Howe added.
Both carry wallet-sized photographs of their daughter, now 11.
Carrie and Sheila Parkins of Keizer said they are planning a formal commitments ceremony to celebrate their new status.
“To me, this is not any different than marriage,” said Carrie Parkins. “As long as we are getting the benefits, it doesn’t matter what it is called.”
“We have children, and we want to make sure we can make decisions for them,” Sheila Parkins, chimed in, before the two left the clerk’s office with their certificate of domestic partnership, arms around each other’s waists.
Marion County Clerk Bill Burgess said he might be facing a tough re-election campaign in November, after his office disqualified some signatures on petitions to refer the domestic partnership law to the November 2008 ballot.
“But we have to treat every person with dignity, and apply the law fairly,” Burgess said. “I am happy the court’s decision vindicated what county clerk’s offices were doing around the state.”
WOW... wrote on Feb 8, 2008 4:10 PM:
People don't reproduce A-Sexually!
How Do you think you where conceived... A MAN and a WOMAN... Not two women or two men!
What is this world coming to?
But then again i guess it will cut down on the population. "
Oh, well... wrote on Feb 8, 2008 5:38 PM:
Realist wrote on Feb 9, 2008 9:34 AM:
To "Oh, well..."
You don't "go gay". Either you are, or you aren't. It isn't a choice. "
Why... wrote on Feb 9, 2008 11:05 AM:
To: Why... wrote on Feb 9, 2008 11:48 AM:
Moral Minority wrote on Feb 9, 2008 6:20 PM:
Maybe it is a good thing to start over. Some of the comments were to stupid for even the average tweeker. BTW too many of them having kids, but don't worry you hetros don't have to take care of them. We will take care of your disposable medically needy children. "
somedude wrote on Feb 11, 2008 10:03 AM:
evenotsteve wrote on Feb 11, 2008 11:18 AM:
to: evenotsteve wrote on Feb 11, 2008 2:03 PM:
Realist wrote on Feb 11, 2008 2:32 PM:
Tell me, evenotsteve, how does homosexual marriage affect your life? And please, answer without referring to your precious book.
No one has been able to give me an answer. Why don't you try? "
My Thanks to Realist wrote on Feb 11, 2008 4:02 PM:
Tazer Baby wrote on Feb 11, 2008 6:37 PM:
to mgn: wrote on Feb 12, 2008 10:04 AM:
another comment to: evenotsteven wrote on Feb 12, 2008 10:45 AM:
To Realist wrote on Feb 12, 2008 2:24 PM:
Old School wrote on Feb 12, 2008 2:49 PM:
Realist wrote on Feb 12, 2008 5:58 PM:
I love your comment about "disgusting and immoral values." Who are you to say what is disgusting and immoral? Because you disagree with it? Hmmm.
It is okay. You can come out of the closet anytime. You will be loved. "
Re: Realist wrote on Feb 12, 2008 8:15 PM:
Re: Realist wrote on Feb 12, 2008 8:20 PM:
My Opinion wrote on Feb 13, 2008 8:29 AM:
Newcomer wrote on Feb 13, 2008 8:53 AM:
Someone wrote on Feb 13, 2008 9:01 AM:
Realist wrote on Feb 13, 2008 12:54 PM:
I can't believe that you would compare a meth addict to someone who is gay. They didn't choose to gay anymore than you or I choose to be straight.
Do you have any freckles? Any birthmarks? Did you CHOOSE to get those? Nope. Do you see the distinction?
I refuse to get into a theological discussion with you, because whether or not "God" exists is not the topic of this forum. But I will say this; I don't think I can be proven wrong by the bible. Ever read Joseph Campbell? How about Charles Darwin? I believe them. Not a myth.
And once again I challenge you, or anyone to tell me, without using the BIBLE, how does their marriage affect you??? "
Re: Realist wrote on Feb 13, 2008 1:39 PM:
Realist wrote on Feb 13, 2008 2:19 PM:
"
ernie wrote on Feb 13, 2008 3:04 PM:
The INSTITUTION of marriage between a man and a woman is the foundation of the family unit. This type of family unit has always been the main component in not only procreating the human race, but also in child rearing. This should be preserved at all costs.
Allowing homosexual marriage can do nothing for the proliferation of the human race. It would serve to devalue traditional marriage, and sends the wrong message to our offspring who will be responsible for continuing the human race. The homosexuls agenda is to try and tear down the traditional family unit. They want to force people to accept and respect them and their despicable lifestyle. Is it their envy that causes them to despise the very thing that is the foundation and future of the human race.
Allowing Homosexual marriage is to step onto a very slippery slope. What is next, marriage between 3 people, between young children and adults, or people and animals? Where does it stop? "
Re: Realist wrote on Feb 13, 2008 4:51 PM:
Realist wrote on Feb 13, 2008 8:01 PM:
And I DO want to respond, TYVM.
What gives YOU the right to say what is right and wrong? No one put the guidelines of right and wrong under your charge either, but because you are RELIGOUS, you think you have the right to spew your religous B.S. all over me and anyone else. Fine. We can "agree to disagree", but for the record, I am not worried about it being "hot" when I die, because when you die, you are dead. Prove to me otherwise and please, do it without referring to a story.
You haven't answered my question either. I will repeat it again. HOW DOES GAY MARRIAGE AFFECT YOU? (WITHOUT REFERRING TO THE BIBLE?)
Ernie- I will say it again- many heterosexuals can't reproduce either, so your arguement is a moot point. "
Gave up Trying wrote on Feb 14, 2008 8:32 AM:
NewComer wrote on Feb 17, 2008 5:55 PM:
Common Sense wrote on Feb 21, 2008 7:08 AM:
Re:Realist wrote on Feb 21, 2008 10:43 AM:
Let's Get Real wrote on Feb 21, 2008 4:01 PM:
Gay Woman wrote on Feb 22, 2008 6:42 AM:
Common Sense wrote on Feb 25, 2008 7:42 AM:
Gay Woman wrote on Feb 25, 2008 9:42 AM:
Wouldn't you rather the employers take care of them then tax dollars?
"
Common Sense wrote on Feb 25, 2008 2:54 PM:
Realist wrote on Feb 25, 2008 5:05 PM:
Give me a break. You know full well that isn't going to happen. That is just a copout by the religous right to deny equal rights to same-sex couples. I for one, am sick to death of people saying, "well, if we allow gay marriage, people will one day want to marry their pets, or want to marry numerous people" blah, blah, blah.
And by the way, mulitple marrige does happen. What state is that.... oh yeah, UTAH.
I'm sorry, but you just don't fit your moniker. "
Daily Reader wrote on Feb 25, 2008 5:31 PM:
To someone wrote on Feb 26, 2008 7:55 PM:
The BIBLE is TRUTH wrote on Feb 26, 2008 8:23 PM:
CUT IT OUT!!! wrote on Feb 26, 2008 8:31 PM:
Jill wrote on Feb 27, 2008 9:40 AM:
Realist wrote on Feb 27, 2008 9:47 AM:
I don't hate religious people. Where on earth did you get that?
I just challenge them to tell me how gay marriage affects their life without bringing their BIBLE into it. It can't be done. I don't hate god. I just don't believe that he OR she exists. I don't hate straight people. (Where did you get THAT?) And yes, I AM straight; I'm just not narrow.
I just don't understand this obsessive need that the religous right has to keep them from being happy. Honestly, I don't hate anyone. (Where do you get this stuff?)
And the only rude awakening I will ever have is my dog jumping on the bed because he has to go potty.
Oh, before you go all crazy on me, I seem to remember something called.... what is it.....? Ah! Seperation of CHURCH and STATE. That is my "obsessive need" to keep religion out of things. But hey, thanks for playing.
"
To the Bible and Realist wrote on Feb 27, 2008 1:40 PM:
Newcomer wrote on Feb 27, 2008 3:14 PM:
Pierce Co. Repub wrote on Feb 28, 2008 7:50 AM:








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